Anyone else care to share? He does remind me of a father figure in a way. . With your partner's Venus in your 12th house, you are drawn to and captivated by your significant other. Venus in 10th House synastry relationships are formed in the field of business and professional life. Brrrrrrr . These are actions of some type. Thats one thing I have been thinking about since reading other threads on the subject..also what house does your Venus fall in in his chart? Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. Venus is a beneficial planet in astrology. What do you think? Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. 12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. We face the same situation when someone touch our 12th house. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. Fatherly type things like that. You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. The North Node represents our souls goal in this l Mercury in Partners 1st house You will inspire easy communication with your partner. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. All we can do is hope for something good in the future! I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. We finally realize wait, where are they, why are they not here if we feel so strongly about each other? It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! Same here. Very easy. Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. Topic: Venus in 12th house Synastry: KarkaQueen Knowflake . Posts: 1873From: GeorgiaRegistered: May 2009. there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. I agree with your experience. I promise you a guy who pursues you is a far, far better fit. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. How is aspected by other planets. But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. Oh one more thing: I am a Sun, Venus & Jupiter/Sag native and my Venus is opposite to my 12th House Gemini placement (Uranus-RETRO). Possibly. Im afraid he would stifle me and kill my spirit from the inside out. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. They may also help you feel secure and confident when they are around. Not without good reason, psychic and spiritual connections are not all that common, but they show us what exists beyond this physical world. Its completely one sided, I have no hope. I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. Are they always honest to each other when 12 house is involved? so the judging becomes like, omg i am judging myself kind of thing lol I beleive this is mostly for those aware and can face truth/accept themselves however greatly flawed and love themselves. It's difficult to let go with the person who touch our 12th house. It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . When I think about it, it makes me sad we aren't together. This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. You are BLESSED!! I recent discover my crush has his Mars in my 12th conjunct my Ascendant. He might love you but in his own way. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. I have noticed this can happen from a distance when we have Neptune 12th house synastry as well. Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) My north node in Cancer in the 12th conjuncts his venus and mercury. In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. You are using an out of date browser. I wonder what the key is to making these unusual relationships work.. http://www.nodeorama.com/viewtopic.php?id=2480, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6930. So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. didnt dream of them either. Where their intention was not to help but to hurt. It is also present in my relationship. or I fail? And it is an easy relationship. With him, it's never "goodbye," no matter what. No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. It's as if nither of us are ready to let go fully. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. It's very common to do with placements in this house. Its unbelievably painful. Please also note that having Venus in the 12th means very little without a lot of context. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. His Venus is trine my Mars. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). Him: Cancer sun/moon, Libra rising, Gemini Venus Me: Libra sun, leo moon, Gemini rising , Scorpio Venus. So strange in this 12th house. 6 Keeping the Flame Alive. From all levels! Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. The comments here suggest that he could be affected, but I noticed that in these cases the planet person fell into the house person's 12th, but the house person's planets also fell into their intense houses (1st, 7th, 5th, etc).I have north node in his 12th, but nothing else falls into his 12th. Unless he is catering to the spiritual side of you, its just not a good place for Mars to be in. Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. I have to admit that I, with my usual 3/Sag and 3/Leo stelliums went after HIM because I was so sure he was my soul mate. Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" On a very genera Don't forget to check out your monthly love horoscopes ! Will this ever end!?!?? Im terribly afraid of this 12th house. Or they saw things in us that were not really there whether good or bad. I thaught his strange behavior had something to do with this. I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. hes not so emotional with words but he is in action. No idea if I appear in his?! More so after 15 years. For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). Their is so much fear between us. I felt, I felt sooo hard, in a glance, while looking in his eyes, and feeling like I had know this person for ages. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. And also a lot of Saturn and Neptune going on. The last one who was a crush had his Leo sun in my 12th. Mars in 12th house plus all the unease Im feeling is scary and terrifying. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! Its difficultto tell whats going on here. Its surprising how much love I have for him but it all seems so complicated in his head/heart that I choose not to act on my feelings and just let time do its job. The person whose Venus is in the 8th house of their partner adores their partner very much. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). Okay, so you're saying (as the Venus person in other people's 12th house in the past) that Aqua Venus people will make their affections quite obvious to the 12th house person? The 12th house person can annoy Mars because of the lack of immediate action. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. There are other harsh aspects between our charts, but overall the more connective and important synastry points overrule the bad. We easily know what the other needs without words. It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. If his actions speak (this would be something your pick up on intuitively) that he loves you, but his words dont. I still dont know WHY that occurred . I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. This is because there are endless ways these things can play. The sign over the 12th house also is a big signifier. We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. I dream of him a lot. In the synastry between my husband and myself, my Mars and Saturn lands in his 12th house. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. His mars is in my 12th house. And he's had a muscle twitch problem for years. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. It's the planet of harmony, after all, and it brings harmony and luck to its house in your natal chart. We work well together and it is always professional. The element of secrecy makes their relationship intense and glamorous. He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. Im stuck. I dont want him anymore as he rejected me but I cant help but stop thinking about him. He could not and cannot change . In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. It was a weird sort of dance, attract/ repulse. It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. Plus we both have gemini suns. It may not display this or other websites correctly. Now i know why. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. the assumptions of the worst. ), but at the same time on his POSITIVE/GOOD TWIN sign I recognized parts of myself that were. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. My Neptune is in my 10th house in Scorpio and since I guess I'm what they would call a "Pluto person" since I have so many (5) planets in my 8th house, maybe that would mean something? what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! So we became " friends" . GOD-awful!! You need some fire. This is the area of life devoted to spirituality, imagination, confining institutions, and secret enemies, the hidden side of life; in synastry, the impact of one person's planets on another's 12th House indicates the manner in which they affect their spiritual experience and either promote or retard the other's own self-undoing. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. I dont know if he really loves me but Ive never felt this connected with someone before. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. The 12th House!! Registered: May 2009. posted June 11, 2013 02:39 PM. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. My 12th-Houser Sun/Gem Moon/Sag BROUGHT OUT MY OWN GEMINI COMPORTMENT, and then I also remembered that I had started out as Twins but that my Twin didnt make it in the womb. Ive always been madly in love with him, andhe claims he isntbut his actions speak otherwise. His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. I also have a stellium of 5 planets in my 8th house so I tend to be highly intuitive already. You have a tendency to fall in love with people who re not available, and . Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. Some are just hung up on their exes. In fact, I was his spiritual company for more than the twenty years we spent apart. I felt I was led to believe they cared for me, and while showering me with attention, long distance no less, never told me they had feelings for someone else they were trying to avoid. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? I need help with my situation. All of the guys whom I'm involved above have stellium especially benefic planets in my 12th house. Forum Venus in 8th house synastry Posts: 8 scorpiounique Topic starter March 7, 2022 9:36 am (@scorpiounique) Active Member Joined: 6 years ago His Pisces Venus falls into my Pisces 8th house. Okay, this advice is not even remotely astrological, but take it from a person who dated a lot, and always with an intention to settle in a committed relationship. His moon fall in my 5th house. It means he needs to work through then and the only way to do this is to, effectively lie to you, so he can havevtgecspace he needs to work through his issues. With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. It was a relationship that brought up many subconscious issues for both, but also very intimate, we shared a lot of stuff wed never shared with anyone before. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? It's much like a therapist/patient relationship. I know it sounds crazy. My Pluto sextiles his Moon and Venus and opposes his NN. This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second. People who are willing to fully trust can let themselves loose in the 12th house if you show hesitation than it can make a big difference. I've never experienced Venus in my 12th house until now, but yup That's what it is like. Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. My Lib Sun and Jupiter falls in his 12th. I have a very bad experience with someone's mars on my 12th house. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). I could feel something so deep. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! One is Taurus and the other is Libra. You will not regret it. Its like that alcoholics anonymous quote of acceptance of who you are thats why its not good for people to judge other people because they are not and never understand how to live in their shoes. he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen.

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